Questions about divorce

Some simple questions on marriage, divorce, and remarriage:

Do you think there is such a thing as an illegitimate divorce?

What’s the difference between a legitimate and an illegitimate divorce?

If someone is illegitimately divorced, would it be adultery for that person to get remarried?

Is it possible that some divorced people should be allowed to remarry but others should not?

Can people be victims of divorce? If so, who might divorce victimize? The children? The spouses? Their parents? Friends and acquaintances?

Do you think of marriage as being entirely a private matter, or is it also a public thing?

If marriage is a public thing, do you think divorce should also be a public thing to that degree?

If both divorce and remarriage are sometimes illegitimate, if divorce often has victims, and if marriage, divorce, and remarriage are all public things, do you think that society has a role to play in permitting or denying them or should people just be able to have them anytime they want?